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10 Years Wedding Anniversary : Popular Fitness And Wellness Coach AskDamz Narrates How She Almost Didn’t Have A Wedding

by Beatrice Inim

Ask Damz has become a household name so fast in recent years,  when it comes to Fitness and wellness coaching. She is celebrating ten years in her marriage,  and she took to instagram to post new family photos,  while narrating how it has been for ten years now.  She describes the setback faced when her wedding was about to happen,  and everything else that came after.  You may want to grab a drink and some snacks or this one,  because,  honey,  it is a pretty long read!

” IT’S BEEN 10 YEARS OF BEING MARRIED TO THIS AWESOME MAN 🥳🥳🥳10 YEARS !!!Permission to flood your timelines today . I have a story to tell and I pray it blesses someone who reads it !
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13 years ago , fate happened to bring a 21 years old woman called Damz and a 26 years old man called Debs together . They thought it would be a fling , because they were just church goers but weren’t grounded in the word at all but they were christians still sha 😭.Ohhh! They could rock for africa ! Chief clubbers of the century! Name the party or night club, they were there 😂. Please keep reading . I have a point to make . My message is not for everybody but its for someone who thinks they are not fit or worthy to surrender or come back to God like the prodigal son did .
Ohhh we were not the average christian holy couple at all ,but 2 years down the line, we found ourselves helplessly and hopelessly in love with each other . We wanted to spend the rest of our lives together and we made that decision to do so in 2008😁🎊but guess what ??? WE WERE BOTH YOUNG GRADUATES! I HAD NO JOB ! HE HAD A JOB BUT THE SALARY WASN’T HIGH ENOUGH OR CONSISTENT ENOUGH TO MEET OUR GENERAL NEEDS. We still decided we wanted to marry irrespective of whatever . Talk about hard times when we were dating!!! From Borrowed car breaking down on the road , money for rent not being complete to get our first flat , you name it ! We went through it . I was a woman who could have dated a self made millionaire or a random person with money but nooooo ” I HAPPENED TO BE OBSESSED WITH THIS MAN” … Ohhh the looks ! People thought we were crazy! Even some of our friends too😂😂 Then we got pregnant😨😨😨😨Haaaa!!!! Hospital bills nko ??? Would we have to run back to mummy and daddy for help 😭😭would we have to beg for money if we ever ran out of milk or diapers ???😨😨😨 what were we thinking !!! We hadn’t even had a wedding ceremony yet!!! My mother almost had a heart attack !!! 😂😂  Hay God! I ” fell” pregnant 😭🤷🏼‍♂ and then hmmmm reality hit us !!!! Wedding bills ??? Hmmm, antenatal bills ??? Baby delivery bills ???😨😨😨 Lord God ! Have mercy! What have we done here ??? Did we make a mistake ??? How would we survive ???!!!! … I came from an extremely comfortable/borderline rich family and his family was very well off also but even if they paid for the wedding, what about life after ???😭😭😭😭 Dear God ! Have mercy on us! We have sinned against you but we love each other so much. Like God pleaseeee help us! Save us! We want to be with each other forever and ever but we don’t have stable jobs !!! Helpppp! Jesus! Are you listening to us ??? HAVE MERCY😨😭😭😭 … .
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For some reason very close to the wedding, my mother (a single parent) experienced a major drought in her finances and people must have laughed at us and thought everything would be over but GOD SAID NO.We continued with wedding plans … 🤷🏼‍♂👀👀even when we had no money for house rent yet and no money for the wedding ceremony itself. Buttttt Lo and behold ! 1 month to the wedding, my mum struck gold😂 and my husband’s family were ready to carry a lot of the burden of the wedding ceremony expenses. Almost everything was paid for in just a month or less to the wedding#GODISMERCIFUL . However, one thing was missing! We were so excited about our forever and other wedding plans that I forgot I needed a wedding dress too😨! 😩 I looked for dresse’s/prices everywhere and we couldn’t afford any after spending all on other essentials😭 !!! Thank God my friend volunteered to make a dress very quickly for me and the mua did the makeup free of charge! 🥳🥳🥳 see we saved money !!!hurray🥳🥳🎊🎊 BUT THEN REALITY WAS ABOUT TO STRIKE!!! … There is life after wedding oooo. To whom it may concern! Hmmm

Then it was time to deliver our first child (we have two kids ) . The hospital gave us the bill for our C section! We almost had a heart attack 😭😭 and we didn’t want to ask anybody for money. No asking of mummy , daddy or friends ! … We kept thinking ” Dear God ! We messed up but we know this marriage was destined to be ” … We would always re-assure each other of our do or die affair and how we will never separate or divorce for any reason and my husband would always re assure me that he would always do his best to take care of me and love me no matter what !! He would pray and show up at church every week . As for me , I was happy to stay at home most sundays but because my husband was such a church lover ! I just did follow follow🤷‍♀️so I won’t look like the anti-christ👀..
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“God! I trust you” was what I kept saying to myself and to God😩We prayed !!! Ohhh we prayed to God ! … so I went and took time out to count all the money they sprayed us at the wedding and it was enough to cover the hospital bills and there was still small leftover!!!🥳🥳🥳 Glory to God 😭 … On another note, My husband! What a hustler! Kaiii! This guy was always coming up with new “LEGAL” ideas and new this and that to feed his family and he did so. We never lacked anything. Nothing at all. There was no destination honeymoon. Honeymoon keee ??? When we need to buy milk and diapers 🤷🏼‍♂🤷🏼‍♂ ko jor! (impossicant) … .

My husband taught me the importance of having a relationship with God and “TITHING”. It sounded crazy to me. This guy would literally give a minimum of 20 percent of anything he earned to church😱 like is he joking !!! I would always say to myself (not aloud) but guess what !?! God is not a man that he should lie. God always restored him, good measure, pressed down, shaken together and RUNNING OVER!This man took care of me. I had no job! This man made sure I never lacked and then SUDDENLY !!! ONE DAY! THE CRAZIEST THING HAPPENED 😭😭ABSOLUTELY CRAZY!!!

There was 100,000 Naira left in my husbands account.
We were at church @guidinglightgla and lo and behold this guy said, “GOD ASKED HIM TO SOW A DEEP SEED “😨😨😨😨” .
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JESUS IS LORD ! He has come again !!! ” ( I thought to myself ) … My daughter was about 3 months old . I didn’t bother asking what this deep seed was because in my mind nobody in their right frame of mind would sow all the money they have just like that. Give like 10,000 and keep 90,000 thousand abi ??? Hmmmm …. Bhettt!!! Little did I know !!!! … After church , I asked him ” excuse me sir , plixxx how much did you give ???”” … He said I gave 70 percent!!! Jesus is Lord 😨😨😨😭😭 I almost passed out ! “Why why why would you do such ?????” I said … He said the holyspirit asked him to sow a painful seed 😭 … I was so mad !!!I wanted to beat him up if possible 😭😭😭 But I remained quiet and calm . Very calm . I couldn’t utter a word!!!
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I went into my room and cried my eyes out . God! What next ???!!! He has 30k remaining and I AM JOBLESS !!!!😭😭😭😭😫 … He knew I was hurting and he held me and said ” Damz dont worry , I know what I was doing . I’m not mad . God will replenish everything he asked me to give out ” . . . That made me even madder than ever 😫 but what happened 24 hours later made me as scared as ever !!!! I have never seen God move in such a manner !!!! People of God !!!!!!! Ahhhh

after that “DEEP SEED SOWING”, I was so sad and overwhelmed. I felt like the world was collapsing on my shoulders. Approximately about 24 hours later, my husband got a phone call about some projects he had been working on. He said he got funding to execute these projects! I was like 😱😱😱 howwww?!!!! … Next thing my husband drives me to a parking lot and says to me, “we have another brand new car”, but this time it was a “JEEP” (my spec😂😭). Please note, I actually forgot to state that before we got married, we had visited at least 20 different car shops/banks to speak to them about getting a car loan. Everything failed because we didn’t have enough to even do an initial deposit. However, when God turned the situation around, we were like they that dreamed (PSALM 126:1). So this man started working tirelessly on these building projects and before I knew it, after a few months, he says “babes we are moving !” … I said to where ??? 🤷🏼‍♂ Hellurrr… how ??? … He said we are moving out of the flat that we struggled to pay rent for, into a FOUR BEDROOM DUPLEX ON THE ISLAND 🤷🏼‍♂ AHHHH! DEAR GOD IS THAT HOW YOU USED TO DO !!!!🥳🥳🥳🥳 Okay nowwww! It wasn’t even up to a year of marriage and I suddenly became labeled “a rich man’s wife” awwww! Ohhh the joy !!! … Ahhh !!! … Next thing this man became a property owner. Yup! His own house !!!… I became a car changer. It no longer became a big deal. A G-wagon was one of the cars that I used to learn how to drive. This is not for bragging purposes. Who bragging epp ??? … This is just to let the world know that “GOD CAN BE TRUSTED!!! GOD IS FAITHFUL !!! NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POTENTIAL OF A DEDICATED AND HARDWORKING LIFE PARTNER. DO NOT MARRY SOMEONE ONLY BECAUSE THEY ARE RICH. DO NOT DISCHARGE A MAN OR A WOMAN WOMAN JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE INITIALLY BROKE. ASK YOURSELF IF THEY HAVE POTENTIAL BEFORE DECIDING TO “ABANDON PROJECT” ‍ …”

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