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81st Wedding Anniversary: Longest Married Couple Shares Secrets Of Their Happy Marriage

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John and Ann Betar eloped on Nov. 25, 1932, fleeing their close-knit Syrian neighborhood in Bridgeport, Connecticut, and driving as fast as they could to Harrison, New York, to avoid Ann’s father’s plans to marry her off to a man 20 years older.
The couple, named on Valentine’s Day by Worldwide Marriage Encounter as 2013’s “longest married couple” in America, can only laugh as they look back on the commotion they caused.
“Everyone was hopping mad, and my wife’s aunt consoled my father-in-law by telling him not to worry, the marriage won’t last,” chuckled John Betar, now 102 and still driving “though not quite as fast as the day we got married.”
Ann Betar, 98, said she “had no choice but to elope because my father was set on me marrying a much older man, and I was 17. John was not the boy next door, but the boy across the street who I loved,” she said.


The day the couple tied the knot, the Great Depression was in full swing, “King Kong” had yet to shake up the silver screen, and future U.S. President John F. Kennedy was just a high school student.

They recently received the longest-marriage award from the Worldwide Marriage Encounter.

“We have watched the world change together,” said John Betar. “The key is to always agree with your wife.”


The couple’s house is on Long Island Sound, just a few miles from where they raised their five children in Bridgeport. John ran a grocery store before becoming a realtor.
Life has not always been easy. The couple lost one daughter and their only son to cancer within the past 15 years.

“No matter how many children you have or how old they are, it’s the worst thing that can happen to a parent,” Ann Betar said. “But our oldest daughter is 80 years old.”
The Betars have 14 grandchildren and 16 great-grandchildren.


Last February, representatives of Worldwide Marriage Encounter, a Christian group based in San Bernardino, California, flew to Fairfield to present the Betars with a plaque and other gifts. It determined they were the longest-married living couple in the United States, based on a review of nominations sent in from around the country.
Dick Baumbach, a group spokesman, came up with the idea for the annual award to “encourage young couples to stay together.”
The Betars even finish each other’s sentences.
“We’ll be together forever,” said John, as Ann added softly, “somewhere we will be.”

Credit: NY Daily News

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Dharmie November 29, 2013 - 7:26 pm

This is so sweet and lovely.

prudence November 29, 2013 - 7:35 pm

Woww…. I’m just speechless… GOD IS WONDERFUL. True love never dies.

Bliss November 30, 2013 - 10:03 am

The key is τ̅☺ always agree ωiτђ your wife….really???

sil November 30, 2013 - 4:32 pm

Yes bliss thats the key.becos women are very emotinal.but they make good judgments when it comes to running the home.have seen this in my own parents.so touching.

bb December 6, 2013 - 3:55 pm

i pray for this, and so shall it be (amen)

Adetoro Adeagbo March 23, 2014 - 7:15 pm

Unbelievable&very interesting

Ethan May 6, 2014 - 6:33 am

I always spent my half an hour to read this weblog’s articles all the time along
with a cup of coffee.

blessing finest May 6, 2014 - 10:55 am

Dis is wat I pray for!so lovely cos for me marrige is for always, and forever.

Amaka May 6, 2014 - 1:03 pm

I’m really touched, i pray dat my own marriage will also last like this

Adaobi November 7, 2014 - 10:53 am

This is great. I thank God for your lives and I wish to experience true love that will last forever.


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