I need advice. 9 months ago I began a relationship with a youngman, I had been communicating with online for 1 1/2 yrs.
We’re happy most of the time, however for a while we’ve been having some problems due to his inability to love me, because his ex cheated on him severally. I am almost 39yrs and he doesn’t seem to understand that at this stage in life my interest isn’t in cheating , my focus is to settle down , have kids and finally live. He can’t seem to trust me enough to love me, though i have given him no reason to distrust my love for him.
I cannot stand being compared to his ex and it just drives me crazy knowing all I ever done is love, cherish and adore him……..so I worship the ground that dude walks on, even though i am not so blind I dont see his flaws! They’re there ,he’s always angry, broke, self-centred, egotistic ,and rude to anyone who disagrees with his line of thought. However I am mature enough to know nobody is perfect, in anycase he’s got some great qualities as well.
I dont know what else to do, my heart is just so broken