Have you ever wondered why a lady u are crazy about ended up with some dude that
really doesn’t fit your stereotype of her “knight in shining armor”?
well, here it goes: she may want you. She sure doesn’t need you. but stick around
long enough, u will most likely get her… reason is simple, with women, the
difference between a ‘want’ and a ‘need’ is not wrapped around that “necessity
or life-death” philosophy. in a woman’s mind, the difference is just one
If a woman likes something she can’t have or doesn’t “need”, no
biggie. It goes away as fast as her desire builds, but keep that thing in sight
a while longer and she is hooked… and till she gets it, she’s rabid with
‘fatal attraction’, and believe me, there’s no replacement for that ‘want’
Number 2 and more importantly, a woman wants what she wants. If a
woman wants a fork, buy her a platinum spoon and she will love you, not because the
spoon is platinum.. to her (at that point), a spoon is a spoon. maybe u get a longer hug for all
that platinum… ok maybe with a forehead kiss… obviously after a while
(especially when her friends get wide-eyed about it), she loves you more for the
plat. Why? don’t ask me.
1. A woman’s proclivity is born by the importunity of an opportunity
2. A woman’s necessity is defined by subjectivity of her mentality and not by
the enormity of objectivity…
but there are 3 exceptions to the rule:
1. the godly woman, reasons:
a. she’s not (or rather shouldn’t be) moved by anything but the word of God
b. her mind is steered by the Holy Spirit.
2. My woman. reasons:
a. refer to a and b above.
b. i just make her see what she wants in what she’s got… till I can get
what she really wants, lmao!!!
3. every woman that reads this. reason:
“every woman is different”
PS. note the inverted commas
Look out for part II
Written by Dr. Gbolahan Ogunbayo