Hello WDN, I must say you are doing a great job helping people solve their emotional hitch of which I need that help. I am 26years old and in final year medical school in north America as a second degree since I had my first degree in Africa before I left. In 2005, I met this guy and we started a platonic relationship of which my friends and siblings knew of since we are from the same place. Then In 2006, I left Nigeria to school and by the time I came back 6 months later on holidays, he was dating my elder sister. I felt bad but never said anything to both of them only that by the time I left for school, they broke up. He’s been begging me since then. In 2010 he came to my parents to ask for my hand in marriage but my dad bluntly refused that its a shame to date the elder and marry the younger. He’s done all have asked him to just to prove he is sorry but I am so scared and worried about getting married to him. If I may say, I still love him but I am too scared to rise against my family. The years come and go, have had many proposals of which my dad always says No using my education as a point. My elder sister is married with 2 kids, myself and this guy are still single. Please house is it wrong for me to marry this guy? Should I stay with my family’s decision or marry this guy because I cant seem to love all the men proposing to me.
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