I’m 23 done with school and working. I’m dating a guy 30 years of age(working too) who keeps
having affairs and when I ask about it or bring up the topic, he would apologise immediately. He hardly takes me out and he hardly gives me surprises. He does not call my parents and he keeps postponing he would call. Recently I learnt he is having an affair with the brother’s girlfriend but yet to catch them red-handed. His parents and siblings don’t check up on me. He says all sort to his siblings about me like….I can’t cook which is a lie. His family keeps calling me the brother’s girlfriend’s name. I tested him and I told him I was pregnant and he said not now and asked why he said that. To my surprise, he said I wasn’t part of his plan now. I truly love him but he is messing up.
What should I do?
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