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His Family Keeps Calling Me The Brother’s Girlfriend’s Name…

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I’m 23 done with school and working. I’m dating a guy 30 years of age(working too) who keeps
having affairs and when I ask about it or bring up the topic, he would apologise immediately. He hardly takes me out and he hardly gives me surprises. He does not call my parents and he keeps postponing he would call. Recently I learnt he is having an affair with the brother’s girlfriend but yet to catch them red-handed. His parents and siblings don’t check up on me. He says all sort to his siblings about me like….I can’t cook which is a lie. His family keeps calling me the brother’s girlfriend’s name. I tested him and I told him I was pregnant and he said not now and asked why he said that. To my surprise, he said I wasn’t part of his plan now. I truly love him but he is messing up.

What should I do?

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19 comments

Name*nnodim cynthia September 15, 2014 - 7:44 pm

I think u should give him space

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tomi September 15, 2014 - 8:47 pm

Its very glaring dat u r NT welcum in dat Ouse n plzz don’t make d mistake of forcing ursef on him.cos u will later regret it if u marry him @ end of d game.remember u r married to d relatives n not d guy

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tynu September 15, 2014 - 9:03 pm

I beg u,dat kind of a persn dosnt deserve u…ur mch younger € precious 2 settle dat less. May I tel u d truth,wat u feel 4 dat guy isn’t luv bt lust,trust me. Run 4 ur life cos der is mor 2 life than all dese shits. #talkingfromexperience

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kelechi September 15, 2014 - 9:23 pm

Ma dear, dat guy doesn’t luv U @ all. He z just playing wit ur emotion. Pls pack ur bags en delect him 4rm ur dictionary of existence. Ur stil a gal, u dn’t hv 2 rush it in life, tym z stil on ur side. Package en refine ur sef more, wear ur unique nature en move on. Knw it dat he z not ur God. Tnx

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adetoun September 15, 2014 - 9:58 pm

Girl u deserve better, he doesn’t love you!!! Dnt force it, you may take a bow plsssss.

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sunshine September 15, 2014 - 10:09 pm

Hmm! My dear u. Never. Part. Of his plan not just now and will never be its better u quit with him right away cos he just goin to waste your time and dump you later though it might hurt butbelieve me dear time heal live him,take ur time dontrush into anoda, commit everythg into Gods hand. Trust n believe in God ,He is d only solution .wish u all d best!

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taiwo September 15, 2014 - 10:15 pm

Pls u guys shuld go on ur seperate way,nd focus on ur work,sonner u will sEe ur choice who u will luv nd love u back,let d guy go,so dat u won’t regret in nearest future, wish u d best dear

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D.D. Audrey September 16, 2014 - 12:26 am

You know what to do but you are too attached to do the right thing. You are hoping that by some miracle he will change. Dear, he is telling you all you need to hear. He has already told you the value he places on you and even if you marry him he has already told you what you can expect. Believe him and move on. The pain you fear will haunt you a hundred fold in the future if you hold on.

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oyinda September 16, 2014 - 12:52 am

Forget him,thou it might b hard.bt it’s better u move on wit ur life.

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Name* September 16, 2014 - 4:52 am

This man made it clear that he was not ready to commit by entertaining side relationships. You cannot force him to change. Change is a choice that must be solely made by the person who needs to change. So you have two choices: you can stay and tolerate him being unfaithful until (hopefully) he changes or you can leave and pray for God tp bring you the right man into your life? You too need to change your mindset. You are desperately looking for approval from his family yet they are keeping their distance from you. Make your choice – you already know the answer.

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blessing September 16, 2014 - 6:21 am

b carefull dat man dos not luv u so wait for d right man an keep preying

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akinsanya itunu September 16, 2014 - 8:04 am

forget him pls u stil young nd can stil get som1 who can giv hz lyf for u nd do anytin to hav u as hz wife.

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Jennifer September 16, 2014 - 10:35 am

Firstly if you dig deeper the lady they are calling his brother’s girlfriend is probably a lie, family members wouldn’t make that mistake im sure it is his girlfriend and the family knows it. Secondly you deserve someone who loves you and not to make a mockery of you at every given opportunity. You have your whole life ahead of you to determine what you want and what you don’t want. Your happiness is key and it doesn’t lie with a man that has no regard for you. Move on as hard as it may be and learn from this, no lesson is a bad one it is all part of life’s experiences.

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christabel September 16, 2014 - 10:40 am

Please don’t even go there,he is not yours because you are better than that. Know your self worth and move on my dear sister,because life is too short to settle for less.

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faderera September 16, 2014 - 9:23 pm

Quit is the best option for now cus i dnt. Tink he deserve u if u end up gettin married to him u might later regret it

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mobolaji September 17, 2014 - 9:16 am

on a serious note sis, u deserve beta…pray, hope ngo for d best..wishing u d best…

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motunrayo September 17, 2014 - 11:23 am

I strongly agree with evrybdy’s comment,dear pls never force 2 b wiv u,wat u r face av 1nce it nd wat u did by lieing abt pregnancy av try such 1nce jus 2 knw d real luv he has 4,tank God I lie if nt I would av been single mother nau,am happy wiv my single lyf nau,sweerie try 2 b happy wiv who u r better luv will surely approach u dnt sell ursef off

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chichie September 17, 2014 - 11:46 am

My dear sister, deep down ur heart u knw he doesnt Luv u, he jst loves that u love him, ure very young, leave him! Plain n simple n move on, u will get a much beta guy trust me, jst try..all d best!

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kahfilat July 14, 2015 - 7:15 am

Hello sweet just give him a space, and move on

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