I am a 36 years old and I fell in love with a 38-year-old man. We met two and half years ago when I visited Nigeria and before I left back to my base abroad, I didn’t have the time to visit his home. We have been talking and most times he does the visiting. But trouble started when I started planning to visit him. I later found out that he was married with a daughter. When I confronted him, he begged that he didn’t want to loose me and that he was going through divorce at the court. I surprised him sometimes last year and visited but he wouldn’t take me home, he kept me at a friend’s house.
I love this guy so much and he adores me and treats me right, now he wants to marry me but I have never visited his home before.
Please I need advice, should I go on or quit?
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