I am a 26years old lady, I dated a guy for 5years. During the 5years, we had our ups & downs but we still managed to stay in d relationship…even though he was violent most times an also had female friends sending him love messages and so much intimacy attached. They call when we’re together, calling him pet names and saying all sort of passionate and intimate things. When I complain, it will turn into beating & all sort of things..but even at that, I loved him so much & didn’t wish to be away from him. We went on with the relationship & he kept on promising me marriage and that he will never part away from me.Around May this year, he broke up with me for no reason, saying he was tired of the relationship that he was no longer interested not minding how it was gonna affect me since I was writing my final exams in school. Despite pleas from my family, his siblings & my friends, he stood his ground so I had to let him be & tried to move on. After one month, he called my family to tell them that I was the one that wanted the breakup, pushing every blames & faults on me. I was shocked & cried bitterly, that he wanted to come back to me without any remorse & apologies. I went back to him thinking that I had him in my arms again but the happiness was short-lived when after one month of reuniting, he started coming up with excuses & started maltreating me. Day & night,I cried & begged for his love & affection. I begged him to tell me what I did wrong, I begged him to forgive me for whatever I did wrong. After everything, he finally came up saying that he had so many girls on his neck wanting him to marry them that he no longer has that fire for me anymore even when my family & friends called to beg him on my behalf. He scandalized & criticized me before them & even went as far as telling them how he has told people about us & how they have adviced him to leave me alone,that he has finally left me..he even told me that the more I pleaded, the more he hated me. I cried my eyes out, so I took everything in good faith & I let him be. I tried moving on only for me to get a call from him saying he wanted us back again that his siblings talked to him & he realized how much he missed me. When I told him I was not interested anymore that I have moved on, he started raining abuses on me & calling me names and after everything sent me a message that he was sorry that I should forgive him and wanted us to come together.
Please what do I do?