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I Will Break Up With Him!

by Mo Aremu


I met this guy a while back at a party, even though he bears the same name as my ex, I started dating him the week after I met him, and a year after I broke up with my ex.

I kind of liked him the moment I laid eyes on him and I will confess he was quite a charmer and still is.

One night we went out dancing, in the heart of Victoria Island at a very lovely and intimate bar. After some minutes there, he called up 2 of his friends who had offices close by to hook up with us and meet his new girlfriend. He knew they would still be at work at that time. We both work and live on the mainland.

After a couple hours of dancing and drinking, we decided to stay over at his friend’s house because it would not be a wise decision to embark on our journey back to the mainland at that time of the night, without our ‘church mind’.

I found myself in a one bedroom house with 3 guys including my boyfriend. I kind of felt uncomfortable, but I was at peace because I was wearing a pair of slacks and I had my spanks on, so if anyone were to try anything funny, they would have to deal with my body hugging attire first. Lol

Well surprisingly the guys decided to sleep in the living room and they gave me the bedroom in case I wanted to shower. Our host even offered me his girlfriend’s night wear which I gracefully turn down.

My boyfriend came into the room after about 15 minutes and asked how come I was still awake; I told him I was a bit uncomfortable because it was my first time in the house as well as my first time of meeting his friends. All these while, I was curled up under the duvet and thankfully there was electricity supply so the air-condition was on. My boyfriend laughed out loud, called his friends into the room and told me the guys were like his brothers, while he was talking on one side of the bed, his friend (the host) was on my side of the bed. We laughed and I felt a little sleepy. I was about to open my mouth to tell the guys it was ok for them to leave when I felt something under the duvet crawling up my thighs. At first I thought it was a reptile but I realized it was our host’s leg oooooo. Help me!

I tried to compose myself while I pinched him so hard, he had no choice but to stop. The other guys were talking and laughing so hard they had no idea what was going on.

Well, I cleared my throat and told my boyfriend it was time for them to leave, I gave him my ‘right now’ look and he got the message. They went back to the living room and we left for our respectable homes 3 hours later.

On our way to lunch later that day I narrated the whole thing to my man and guess what! He laughed and told me his friend was probably drunk. I was a little upset because I expected him to be furious and immediately pick up the phone to tell his friend off. He obviously did not do that.

I have been feeling kind of funny lately, and I think I need to break up with him because I am suspecting that he is a womanizer. My point is this, his friend might actually be used to seeing different girls with him and he probably thought I was one of his one night stands.

Please I need to know if my breaking up decision is right?

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anonymous January 23, 2015 - 5:28 am

My dear, I actually feel u know the answer to your question already… the signs are written all over. if you are not comfortable with a guy you say you love what are you still doing with him, you don’t need someone else to spell it out for you. And why stay with a guy who gets drunk with his friends on working days not even on a weekend

Don Ocso January 23, 2015 - 5:55 am

Baby slow down, the guys are for real. friends stick together, nothing to worry about, do you know what it takes to have 3 men wait over you?

Pls do not trow away the baby with the bath water.

Name*Faith January 23, 2015 - 7:02 am

There’s really no need for a breakup, the friend might really be drunk or maybe he feels a friend can’t do that to him. That’s guys for us they trust each other so much. It doen’t mean u should spoil a sweet thing you just started.

frances January 23, 2015 - 7:09 am

Break up wt him,,they ar birds of de same feathers

meeeeee January 23, 2015 - 8:13 am

Yoou don’t needd to break up with him so soon but be very careful an watch him closely.

Tonia January 23, 2015 - 8:19 am

Some guys are too unserious, be very watchful my dear.

Tonia January 23, 2015 - 8:20 am


kate January 23, 2015 - 8:39 am

my dear,,, ur guy must have done it to one of their girlfriends,,,it like a chain reaction…am specking from experience,,break up with him,,,befor its too late—-

Gifty January 23, 2015 - 9:14 am

I don’t think breaking up with hm is an ideal thing, this’s d time u really need 2 study d kinda’ person U̶̲̥̅̊я man is, get 2 knw hhim n his friends deep down b4 u come 2 conclusion.,

D.D. Audrey January 24, 2015 - 12:17 am

Girl, you should break up with yourself. All three could have easily raped you spanx or no spanx. Stop putting yourself in compromising positions in the name of dating. You are asking another person to care for your well being and safety when you have not done so. Grow up.


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