Hi. I have been married for almost 11 years and have been blessed with two beautiful children and a third on the way. I met my husband when I was 16 and he was 20 years old. He was my first love and he had the privilege of breaking my virginity. Problem is… When we started having sex, he told me that it was normal to have sex every day and I knew no different so I believed him. We have been having sex a minimum of 6 days
We have been having sex a minimum of 6 days a week and most times 7 days a week for the past 11 years. I never had a problem with it before because I also enjoyed it… Even when I was pregnant with my first 2 children.
Pregnancies are not the same and my present pregnancy is just not keen on us doing it 6-7 days a week! I’m just not in the mood and it’s very hard for me to reach an orgasm in this pregnancy. At a minimum now that I’m pregnant, we do it at least 3-4 days a week but my husband is still complaining that he wants more. I know I should be glad that I have a man that cannot keep his hands off me but now it’s getting too much for me! I am really fed up of him now because he expects me to be his sex machine while pregnant!
Every time he touches me, he gets turned on and wants to sleep with me! I’ve told him several times that I feel used when he does that and would like him to touch me often and not want anything in return! His excuse is always that whenever he touches me he cannot contain himself, he just wants to sleep with me! Whenever I deny him he gets very upset (stop speaking to me, stops cuddling me) and that makes me very sad!
I guess that is the reason why I give in most times because I’m afraid of being ignored for saying no! He has never forced himself on me whenever I said no, he just pretends I don’t exist and that hurts me a lot! What should I do? He is the father of my children and I love him but this is really making me very sad and spend much of my time crying about this issue! Should I just let him be because talking doesn’t seem to help? He doesn’t want to listen! I have always told him that some men are lucky if they even get something once a month from their wives but he says it’s their choice for staying with a stingy woman and he will never do that!
I would like to hear the opinions of other women and men on this issue, please. Thank you very much. God bless you.