Evening WDN. I will want this posted because I need advice. I have been dating a guy for 8months now. Weeks to our introduction, we had a quarrel and he came up saying I don’t respect him, I don’t care for him etc. I also have my reservations about him especially the fact that he’s badly tempered. We both resolved to work on ourselves. He had the introduction cancelled. But for weeks now, he has been putting up this erratic behaviour. Today, we will be fine, in few days time, he will just bring up the quarrel we had (which I felt we have dealt with). Asking me why I wasn’t this way in the past. I feel bad, is it that he isn’t happy that I have sincerely made the changes? Is he just tired of me and the relationship. He’s sapping my joy from me. I am confused.
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