I am a 28-year-old lady. My problem is, I am amenorrheic.I have never seen my menses before.When I got to the age of menstruation and it didn’t come, I alerted my mother and since then we have been seeing different doctors. Recently, the doctor told me I may have a premature ovarian failure from an unknown cause because my ovaries appeared shrunken and atretic that my uterus is small in size.He told me that there are other tests I need to do to find out my genetic component. However, it is possible that i could still have children but from a donor(egg donor). I have dated twice and I have never told any of the guys my problem since we weren’t considering marriage @ that time. Now, I am dating a guy and he is serious and wishes to see my parents. We have been together for 4years. I know it might sound callous not to have told him until now its seems serious but i was scared to loose him. I am scared that he might not want to marry me. Pls I need your candid advice pls. What should I do? Should I tell him before he proposes because I know he will? I am really scared. I have been praying about this believing God for a turn around of my situation.
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