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The Secrets to Attracting the Right Man

by Lola Onabowale

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The right man knows what he wants in a partner. As a woman, you need to display some level of intelligence, know your onions and who you want to attract. Being smart and strong is very crucial, and a man who knows your worth will be attracted to you in the long run.

Below are 6 secrets on how to get his attention. If these don’t work, then you need to let him Go and take some time off to find yourself the right man who will value you for who you are while building up yourself at the same time.

Play hard to get. The worst thing you can do is to smother a guy or appear desperate. Men are attracted to the thrill of the chase, so if you’re chasing after him, you’re taking away the challenge. Keep it low-key and keep him on the edge of his seat. Maintain your composure. Your outward indifference may make him want you more.

Be mysterious. A huge part of attracting men is letting them figure you out. Don’t talk his ear off about every detail of your life or your feelings. Carefully think about what you say and don’t fill the conversation with idle gabbing. Also, don’t make yourself available all the time. Allow him to wonder where you are and what you’re doing.

Display intelligence and depth. Don’t say “like” and “um” in every sentence. Intelligence is sexy. A smart woman who knows what she wants and how to get it will attract men everywhere she goes. Displaying your intellect reveals that you have depth. This will attract men more effectively than coming across as dim.

Be fun, in ways that men think are fun. This rule of attraction seems simple enough, but so many girls get it wrong. Don’t be too much of a stereotypical “girl.” Be able to let your hair down and tell jokes, watch sports, play video games or poker with him and try to enjoy the things that he enjoys. He’s not interested in holding your purse while you shop. Nor does he care what happened in last week’s episode of Days of Our Lives. Hang out at sports bars with him. He’ll want you even more, and show some interests in what he enjoys doing.

Take care of your appearance. A woman who takes care of herself will attract men easier than one who doesn’t. Shower with nice-smelling bath products. Use a feminine scented deodorant. Brush your teeth well and always keep mints and gum on hand. If you talk to a guy and your breath is less than fresh, he’s not going to notice anything else about you. Keep your hair neat and clean and take pride in your looks. Use a perfume that smells sweet and sensual.

Dress to Impress. Dress in clothes that make feel classy. You don’t have to look like a tramp, just keep in mind the styles that are attractive to men. Wear feminine clothing that accentuates your figure and hugs your body just right. Use the colors red or pink to your advantage; remember, men are visual.

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Talk November 12, 2015 - 1:45 pm

What about “the secrets to attracting the right woman”? …thanks for the piece but think women are constantly been indirectly stereotyped to fit the idea of whatever man.. how about men trying to please us, make us fall over again & fighting to keep us. Women we need a breather from all the do’s & dont’s , we have seen & done enough. Not to be gullible but a woman shld just be herself any man that’s attracted and wants you will approach you. And any serious man who truly loves in the whole essence, he will live his live pleasing God & you…please.


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