Every time I say this, some people think I am being nosy… No condition is permanent. We don’t pray for anything to happen, but THINGS DO HAPPEN. The story of the 10 maidens teaches women to be prepared. Don’t be caught wanting. Learn to do something.
Even if he takes care of everything… You still gain! There are cases where the family swoop on all the late husband has and leave the widow with nothing. (Like in The Weakest link). Have you noticed that it’s the women who did not have anything to do and were totally dependent on their late husbands that keep sulking and running around seeking help on pity avenue. The ones who have something to do, just say good riddance to the family and continue to take care of their kids and live their life to the fullest especially if there were no kids.
Let’s even say the husband didn’t die. He just moved on. You continue like nothing happened. In fact, that you COULD BE INDEPENDENT MAY JUST (Just may) BE A REASON A GUY KNOWS NOT TO TREAT YOU ANYHOW… Be guided….