Good evening, please help me to post this as soon as possible. I’m a young lady of 27 that is about to marry. My introduction is this week Saturday but the problem I’m having now is that my husband-to-be is a minister (assistant pastor to be precise) in Mountain of Fire. When he came to propose to me, I told him that it couldn’t work due to standard of his church (no make up, Jewelries, attachment & so on) because I’m attending another denomination that make-up and using earrings are allowed but he said that I shouldn’t worry that nothing can stop him from loving me. He pleaded with me that after we get married, I won’t be using them to church due to his position but I’m free to use them outside the church which I agreed but the problem now is that he called me just yesterday that I should stop using everything from now on that he can’t take them anymore to the extent that he said I should not attach anything to my hair again (plaiting and weaving are only allowed).
Please, your advice is urgently needed.
Thanks in advance
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