Vaginoplasty is a reconstructive plastic surgery and cosmetic procedure for the vaginal canal and its mucous membrane.
My man jokingly says that I need to get a vaginoplasty and I am seriously considering it. We’ve been together for almost a year and our sex life is pretty regular. It used to be really good but now I just feel self-conscious. Sometimes in the middle of the act my man will stop and whisper, “Just try to tighten up or grip me.” I try my best but then he continues on annoyed like it makes no difference. I know he would pay for it if I asked but I have the money.
This is not to save my relationship with my boyfriend, although he’s the one who first suggested it. Now he’s even showing me news clips about women having their vaginas tightened. He said it looks like a “sexy little procedure” and he would “marry me in a minute” if I did it. He always makes it seem like a joke but he keeps on mentioning the surgery. He even said it’s better when I’m drier because then at least he can get some kind of friction.
Culled from Essence